what would you do if u met another guy that u had a lot in common with and really hit it off with but u have a boyfriend... do u continue to get to know this new guy or do u just forget about him.
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So do you care for your boyfriend or not? You probably just said "I do" in your head right now but that isn't an answer.
If you ACTUALLY love your boyfriend and want a future with him, you'd drop everything to do with the other guy right now and stay committed to your boyfriend. However, if you have to ask us to make this decision for you, it's obvious you aren't committed enough to do what I just described.
I'd say that if you aren't willing to stay committed to your current BF, you might as well break-up with him now and stop wasting his time, energy and emotions and go with the other guy. Don't become a shitty human and start cheating on your boyfriend or having a secret relationship. Just do it right and leave him now. Be honest about it though. My ex wasn't and blamed me for everything when in reality it was just a concise cover to make herself feel better for leaving me for another guy. Just tell him you don't like him anymore and like someone else instead. Done. Will you and the other guy have a successful relationship or a better one than your past one? Who knows. However, right now you aren't on track to continue your current relationship, so you don't have a choice in the matter.0