Some less obvious signs are the things Im interested in knowing. What is the best way to handle a situation like this for a long term relationship?
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Does he talk about wanting to suck dick? Does he mention from time to time that what he really wants right now is a couple of big hairy balls in his mouth? Or, maybe he tells you to get the strap-on from under his bed and f u c k him in the ass until he passes out from the pleasure he's receiving.
In all seriousness, if he's gay and hasn't figured it out yet, he will soon enough. Most of the people I've known that figured out they were gay, didn't fully admit it until they were in their mid 20s to early 30s. All of their friends knew (or seemed to know) long before they came out. They were always surprised to find out that we knew before they did. So, what I am saying is, there is probably nothing you can figure out for a "long term relationship." Unless, of course, you are speaking of a "friends" relationship. If that's the case, just be his friend.1
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