Either because of religion, safety, or birth control, some guys don't want to have sex. So, if you met the perfect girl, and she had slipped up in the past a couple of times, but had not made a lifestyle out of sex, would you not be as interested in her?
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Honestly I think that the NON Virgins should be looking at the Virgins and shaking thier head in wonderment. Those "virgins of choice" are going to be kicking themselves in the ass when they get older and wiser. It is so silly to stay a virgin. All of use who are divorced say "it won't be me" when we are getting married. Here is the kicker...you don't always have a choice. I would never have become divorced if it was up to me. so the guy your "saving yourself for.." will likely be screwing someone else in 10, 20 or 30 yrs. I was with my ex 25 yrs. so don't think you just have to get over a certain year mark...
Sex is an adult toy. it is very important in a relationship. use it fast and use it often. dont get caught up in "guys want to chase you..." or "if I do it too soon he will lose interest" it is all bullshit...0