My bf of 6mths is in the process of getting a divorce from his wife of 5yrs, they have 2 little boys, my question is basically asking if this scenario is appropriate: wife calls him telling him she forgot juice at the store and if he wouldn't mind picking some up on his way to drop off the boys, he said sure and asked if she needed wipes , my thing is he pays a buttload of child support already and I don't think it's his responsibility , it just makes me feel insecure
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If you can't handle this, you should just break up with him now. I promise you, things will get much tougher in the future, and she is always going to be part of his life, as they have children together. I think you just don't understand what you are getting yourself into, and the fact that you were dating him while he was still married kind of confirms that.
You aren't ready for this. Break up with him, and find a guy who is single and has no kids, because with this guy, you are getting "instant family, with ex's" and that's all a part of the package.0