Of course the idea of a virgin girl is often attractive, but is there some value in a dude's virginity?
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"Virgin" is a term that is quickly becoming hard to define as people have more varied sexual experiences spread out over the course of time. I personally find the mindset a man has to be more important. If he's a virgin but is resentful and "just wants to get laid", I'l find that a turn off. A man who is more experienced, but isn't casual with his sexuality (and thus a better match to my attitudes), would be more attractive than that. Essentially, the status itself doesn't matter to me, although I do trend towards ending up with guys who have had fewer partners, as so far they have been more respectful of my own boundaries. I have not had intercourse myself, for medical and logistical reasons. In short, I think it doesn't matter- do the responsible, respectful, loving thing for all involved (be that sex or no) and be true to your own values, plans and needs. Great people tend to be attracted to great people :)1