I think there is always alterior motives and secrets in relationships. I have yet to see true love, and thus I do not believe in it. I mean the kind of love in love songs, like I Don't Wanna Miss A Thing for example, and movies. Do any of you believe in it?
Most Helpful Guy
Absolutely. None are perfect but they can be decent. Better men have strong non-relationship interests. You will not be the center of attention but your place beside him will be far more simple and secure. Believe me. "Hey, lets pack a cooler and go to the Corvette show at the park!" is far better than "Hey, lets hook up and hang out!" any day.
Lose the makeup, highly styled clothes and expensive hairdo's, throw on a pair of jeans and a t-shirt over that formless sports bra, tie your hair back and get outside. And if you say "Oops, I forgot to wax!", he'll say "Its OK, I brought polish. We'll wax the Corvette at the show!"
My humor decorates the truth.0