My friend is not so good looking, but she thinks she so much more attractive than she really is. She's really nice and has a great personality but she's not attractive.
She has a crush on the most popular guy at my school, and she plans on telling him soon. Problem is, I know he doesn't like her back. In fact, he hates her. How can I tell her that it's not such a good idea without hurting her? I don't want to lie, but I don't wanna be blunt or rude either.
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Janiel, you have absolutely no right to judge whether someone is a "catch" or not. Why do you seem to feel that it is necessary to make her think she is unattractive? (even if she is). Do you want her for the rest of her life to consider her looks before approaching a guy, and only go for guys that YOU feel she looks good enough for? I'm guessing that you think you are pretty on the outside, and perhaps you are, but your personality could take a few lessons from this nice unattractive friend. Somehow, I think she is WAY more attractive than you are portraying her.0