Ok im a 17 old male. Around Christmas time i was talking to a girl in my band class. Then I went to my wrestling tournament out of town. So we stayed at hotel. I texted her on fb for 3 hours. That I wanted to be more then friends. And I really liked her and wanted to hang out more and possibly date, I also invited her to my wrestling meets to spend more time together. She said said she think about it but she was pushing towards yes. Just the way she was texting. So the next day I texted her after my tournament, she said she didn't have any feelings for me like that. I was crushed more like dead inside. I then opened my heart to her, told her I loved her, and if we ever dated I would spend every day better than the last, treat her like a queen. She said that was sweet but she just wanted to be friends only. I was so devastated that was my first true love I had, I still even have feelings for her. When I got home that night I tried to od on pain killers and alcohol and cried myself to sleep. I told I did that a week later. She said please stop your better than that, you'll meet all different kinds of girls in college, she was sorry she said she was sorry I caused you to do that. I said its alright I want u to be with me because you want to be not because you feel bad or have to be with me. To this day im still depressed and cry when I dont have her with me. But were just friends now. Any suggestions or help?
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I friendzoned a guy like 3 months ago and now we're dating, but he worked really hard to win me over, but that isn't always what happens to everyone.
I was devastated about 5 months ago when the guy I used to love called it quits, I told him I was never gonna love anyone again or that I wouldn't love anyone as much as I loved him, but as you can see I am now happily dating a guy who worked his ass off to get me to like him back and the other guy and me have maintained a wonderful friendship.
So I only have one thing left to say. Let it goooo~ Let it goooo~0