I am a shy guy, I talk to woman and instead of trying to ask them out, I become there friend. Is it because i am unattractive?
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Confidence is your problem. You don't let it be known that you like them and that you want them.
I just thought long and hard about this myself because I was just like you. Confidence. Take charge. Don't just sit there and talk. Women like to talk. They'll talk your head off.
At some point... no from the beginning you have to let them know you're interested. This way, once you do. You'll know from them if they're interested. -And if not, you don't have to waste your time. Find someone else to talk to.0