So this is another story about the confusion I am going through. I went out to some bars last Saturday and I hung out with just my friends. The girl I'm dating was suppose to go out with her friends. She went out with her friends during the day and drank. Through out the day she was texting me and calling me. She was leaving me messages. I couldn't hear the ringer but, anytime I pulled my phone out and saw she called I responded. I later talked to her and found out she didn't go out with her friends at night. She said she imagined me sleeping with another girl. She said she since we had been rocky lately she thought I might have met someone else. She was crying and really upset. During the week she isn't like this it's like the complete opposite.
Why would she call me and text me that many times from 3 different phones?
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A variety of reasons, I think. First off, if you have been rocky lately, then she was sort of primed to think that something might go wrong. Then she knew that you were going out to bars without her, so there was a chance you might have picked up another girl. Then when you didn't answer your phone, that would send some girls into panic mode, because if a guy had a girlfriend who called him while he was trying to hook up with someone else, of course he wouldn't answer the phone. Plus, she had been drinking, which is going to give anyone a more active imagination. Was she still this worried when she was sober again, after you explained that you couldn't hear your phone ringing? If so, then she has some trust issues that need to be resolved.
Now, why she would use three different phones is something else entirely. Maybe her phone died and she used a friend's, or maybe if she was getting paranoid about you not answering because you were with someone else, she thought you might answer a call from a number that wasn't hers. That's a much stranger thing to me.0