So I've found myself in a situation I've never been in before. A few months ago I starting hanging out with this guy. I told him right away I do not want a relationship and I am talking to and seeing other guys he is fine with it. I did tell him if we start having sex with each other he would be the only person I'd be sleeping with, I would still go out on dates with other guys and still talk to them but when it comes to sex I prefer only one partner at a time. So eventually the guys I was talking to, I talked to less and less but I've met new guys and went out on dates no sexual stuff. The guy I'm hanging out with asked me if I was still talking to guys and I said no because at the time, I wasn't but now I am and the last few weeks he's been slightly paranoid about me "leaving" him and I do not want to hurt this guy at all and I'm getting scared and feeling terrible because I feel like he is getting serious but I'm not at all. A guy I had talked to before I met him recently came back into my life and the connection is strong. I don't know what to do, now I'm lying about not talking to other guys and I don't like it. How do I get myself out of this situation, how do I not hurt him?
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You Seriously need to sit him down and tell him you want to go out with other guys and you are sorry, but-----No more sex. You both Have to just remain friends in Order to keep what must be Now your 'Friends with No benefits' relationship before he really gets hurt. Yes, He most likely Is getting 'serious,' And if you don't say something soon, the lies will just escalate. End your own misery...
His nose May be broken, he may even 'snub' you for awhile, but it's best this way before things get way out of hand and his heart gets Really ripped off of his sleeve, with a far Worse "Situation."