I feel like most of the guys on there are just looking for one thing and it's frustrating because it's hard to know where to meet someone these days that isn't just after sex. I've been on a date with this guy twice and he wants to see me again (he's from a dating site I'm on) and I went on the site just to delete my profile (not because of him but because I'm sick of online dating). Now I feel strange because he was online, I don't expect a guy to get off a dating sie just after a few dates with me but it makes me feel like shit, like he can't be that interested if he's on there looking for more girls. And how can I tell if he's a player? I've noticed he's been online even when he's texting me. Just makes me feel like crap is all..
What are your thoughts on dating sites, have you had any luck? And should I feel like crap that he's still on there looking for other girls, I know he's not settling with me that's fair enough but it just makes me feel like I'm not good enough.
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I hate dating sites, you never really know who you are talking to. I was also on a dating site once and the women are just as bad as the guys and that is why I don't trust dating sites. I don't think either gender should look there to find a partner. In my opinion the worst places to try and meet someone if you are wanting a serious relationship are dating sites, night clubs and bars. This goes for both men and women. The best place to meet someone is somewhere you share the same interest as them (say you love photography), you join a photography club and there you go step one is already there you are talking to a guy or girl depending on your gender that already shares a common interest with you. This gives you something to talk about, it breaks the ice, then you may have coffee with him or her and before you know it they are your partner. It does not always work out that way but that is your best chance. Having said that there are some good people on dating sites of course but in all honesty it is not a good place to meet people.0