I hear a lot of person A being out of person B's league. Do you actually think leagues exist or is it just a confidence thing? Do you think a less physically attractive guy (me for example) could realistically attract a really pretty/cute girl? They even have a movie about it lol. I personally believe a lot of pretty girls are out of my league so I don't even try to flirt with them. But thats maybe because I have really low confidence in myself. So do leagues really exist or is it just a confidence thing?
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They do exist if you accept them. I don't accept them, so they are non-existent to me.
Some people adhere to concepts that make the dating worlds unnecessarily complicated and more difficult, and I think that's because subconsciously they want it that way so they can blame their lack of success and their fears on concepts like leagues ("I had no chance with her, she was obviously out of my league." or "What's the point of trying to approach her, she's not my league, I wouldn't stand a chance anyway.").1