I met a guy online and it started off he'd text me every day and we'd talk for hours. So we met up and it was great we laughed a lot and I thought things went well. Anyway after he backed off and didn't message as much he'd gone back to work so i knew he was busy but I kinda figured he wasn't interested.
Then we texted one evening and he was talking about meeting up again and how he wished he'd kissed me, I told him I did too. Anyway after that the texts have got less and less it only seems to be me texting him and I know he's at work a lot and very busy. So anyway I pretty much freaked out one evening and sent him 4 messages in a row, the last one asking if he still wanted to meet up or not and that I wasn't sure if he was not interested or just busy. He never answered. I really wish I'd never sent him anything I feel like a complete idiot and too clingy now I just wanted to know because I wouldn't bother him if he said no. I haven't messaged him since, is there any hope with him or should I just give up?
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I felt the same way/do feel the same way with my girlfriend sometimes. She lives overseas nowadays and she doesn't text me instantly in the morning - I don't wanna seem to clingy by sending her a good morning message before she talks to me.
We have our days/moments where we don't talk for ages. We used to use up a full kik convo in less than four hours, but now it takes like two days. I don't think we're growing apart but we've kind of run out of things to talk about.
Maybe thats what happened with him, the great amounts (not a bad thing) of talking led to a lack of new things to say
> he didn't know what to say. But when you say that he never responded I feel bad for you :(. I dont know why he wouldn't have responded especially after saying he should've kissed you. Maybe there's a perfectly reasonably explanation - like losing his phone.
I'm not sure, I hope for your sake he responds. I personally would not have been put off by the four messages, shows you care ;3. I can't speak for him though.0