Basically, I've been dating this girl now for about a month and a bit and it's obvious that we really like eachother and all that. However on one date when I offered her my hand while we were walking, she turned it down, only for me to later find out that she wants a casual relationship at the moment and not a serious one. This threw me off guard a bit, but I'm not that concerned it because I know that if I give her time, space and I make her feel valued, things might change. Before this, we were texting really regularly and I don't really want this to stop. What I don't know what to do now is this: should I give her some time (I know she's busy with work and stuff, I respect that) and let her try to initiate a Facebook conversation in the next couple of days, letting her know that i'm giving her space and not trying to rush things, or should I just try to speak to her everyday to show her that her telling me that she doesn't want a serious relationship at the moment hasn't put me off speaking to her. It's a tough choice I reckon, so I hope you guys can help :) Thanks!
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I don't think it necessarily means she isn't into you like some people are suggesting. She may just really enjoy spending time with you but is nervous that once it becomes more serious, all the stresses and complications of a relationship will follow. If you are okay with nothing serious, then tell her that, just say you enjoy spending time with her and that's fine with you. Maybe give her a few days after, then ask her to hang out like normal. :) Only stay with it until you start feeling bad about the situation, if it becomes to hard, be honest with her. It's one of those things where, you should try to put the idea of anything more out of your head, but know that there IS a possibility down the road. good luck!1