I really like this girl. She's really pretty, attractive, and cute. She's just perfect. She's beyond my league. She never materialistically asked me to buy her something. We go on a date to places like theaters, aquarium, concerts, etc. I am the one to pay for everything. We've gone on 7 dates so far and she never offered to pay yet.
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Wow...that's interesting...maybe she was raised differently...so maybe not a gold digger...when my BF and I were first going out...before we became official...I didn't allow him to pay for me and insisted we pay separate...when we became official...we started trading off paying every other time...For me...I was raised that he who pays is the one that has the power...it's messed up...but has been ingrained into me. My mom told me to never take anything from a man.
I have a job though...my BF doesn't cause of the program he's in...when he graduates and pulls in big bucks and we are married...I expect him to do most of the paying cause he'll be making more than me...although I will contribute
Something just doesn't sit right with your situation...if I were you I'd be pissed...especially if you are both in college...I guess I could understand if you are the one making a lot more money than her...but even still I feel like she should at least make an effort to offer...
Secretly though...I would love it if I didn't have to worry about paying for a guy...would be nice to be taken care of and not have to work
Maybe you should talk to her about it1
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