I'll first start off by saying that I met this girl on Tinder.
After talking on tinder, and them moving onto texting. We ended up going on a few dates together (5 in fact so far.). I was really intrigued, because she comes from a good family, is a teacher, and a so called catholic. Very sweet, kind, intelligent, and fits the good girl description.
As of our last date, I knew she was going to Australia for a week with a friend for their birthday, and found out it was a guy that she use to like. She also mentioned on our last date. That she was going on a road trip. After a few drinks, I decided to sneak in the question of with whom she was going with. She told me that it was with a guy that she only knew for 8 months. It wasn't so odd, but she stopped shortly after saying so, and showed an expression. That basically told me that she shouldn't have let that part slip out.
We planned on another date, but after a bud of mine noticing her on Tinder earlier tonight, and actually messaged him back (he wanted to see if she would respond.). I've thought about just not speaking with her further. That the very effort of explaining my concerns seems pointless at this time.
Am I wrong in thinking that she's a player? She expresses how much she likes me, but seems like she isn't as good of a girl as I once though.
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It's Obvious she is Interested in playing the field, dating other men, and not settling down on the roadside with anyone permanent right now.
Just because she is 'in the outfield,' doesn't mean she is Not 'as good of a girl as I once thought,' She just enjoys going out and meeting different guys, doing what she likes to do without answering to anyone, and that includes with Who she chooses to hit the road with.
If you're More into a serious relationship, she is not the girl for you. She's not ready for a steady, and it's 'pointless at this time' to continue if this is your case.
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