So about a week ago my bf was all sweet and loving. During sex he would ask what way I liked better which he had never asked that before. Then he would say I love you during sex which he only says that sometimes not sure why it's not all the time. But anyways this week he hasn't been as loving or wanting to cuddle as much. We recently just talked about marriage which it has been brought up before. But he told me it will happen within 5 years. I asked why he is being this way as in loving one week and next it's like he is distant. He said he's not. He has been this way off and on since we been dating and i don't understand how you can be loving one day and the next a jerk. Also when he brought up the marriage thing I asked when he realized he wanted to be with me forever and he said I don't know then first he said 6 months ago and then he said 3 months ago. Then he said when I started to trust him. Could that be true? He use to get mad when I wouldn't trust him.
Does it sound like he really wants to be with me? And why is he like this?
- yes he wants to be with meVote A
- No he doesn'tVote B
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It is the familiar behavior of what today's toms are: Sporadic, unpredictable, and grow cold duck feet when they Don't want to be in a Committed relationship. Your live-in love is no exception to my golden goose rule.
He's unsure at times, and this is why he is 'distant.' He may be fine today, all hunky dory, but tomorrow he will flap his wings and the relationship sounds like it Could go south. He's unsure, so he is making You the same way in feeling as you do now.
Have a serious soul mate speech with him as soon as possible. He may want to tell you things, and is 'scared' to, for fear he will hurt you. I believe he loves you, but I also believe, like a bird, he may want some space and time and a little freedom to fly.
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