I went to a very large high school 1000+ people in my class, but I live in the same city and often see guys I went to h.s. with on OkCupid. I received an email from OKC with "new matches near me" that included a guy I went to h.s. with. We had a few classes together in school, but we were never really friends, though we are friends on facebook. I wouldn't have really considered dating him in h.s., but now that we are older, I know that he is nice and cute and would maybe like to see if things could work out. I have no idea if we would actually be compatible because I definitely don't know him anymore, but after many failed OKC dates, it has me wondering if maybe it could work out even though I know him from a previous part of my life.
Would it be weird to send him a message saying "hi what's been going on in your life"? Or does anyone have a suggestion as to how to break the ice?
- Send him a message.Vote A
- Let it go. Look for a new person.Vote B
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guys on dating sites would be thrilled to get a message from anybody. If it's someone they have some history with, all the better because the chances of being ignored or disregarded are assumed to be lower.1