If he doesn't give a damn about finding a job, and generally has no ambitions for the future, it is. But if he just lost his job, and is trying to find a new one, it's ok.
The thing I strongly dislike is a guy (or a girl) refusing to take a job they don't like or with a low income as a temporary solution. Since I see your age group, I doubt this is the case, but I see it with some people in their twenties.
However since not having a job is a bad phase in one's life, I understand it's generally hard finding someone new at that time; while if you already had a girlfriend it is unlikely she'd leave you for that. Unless she's a total materialist bitch. Unfortunately, some women are just like that.
u If he's unemployed and not actually using that time to pound the pavement and look for work, yeah that is a turn off. I don't want to be with a guy who just wants to sit on his butt all day and never work again in his life or something.
If the guy is actually disabled and not able to hold a typical job, that's different. Most people aren't in that situation and are able to work regular jobs though.
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Why the fuck would you want a man who doesn't work? Broke niggas make me sick. And why do unemployed guys call women shallow for not wanting a man who don't work? Instead of worrying about a date, contact employers and put in resumes. Broke guys tend to be looking for women to live off and always want someone to drop to their low standards #aintnobodygottimeforthat
More people now then ever are struggling to find work. People are graduating from college and university and are not able to get a job because there is no job for them, the competition is too high. With that said to answer your question yes I would because it might not be your fault.
Its best to get back on your feet before looking for a date.
Iv been there myself and have struggled finding work at times. It can be very frustrating. But its only natural that they will want a man who has an income. You don't have to be rich though. but you at least have to have an income.
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If he's a bum and could care less about trying to get a new job and just sits around, that's a huge turn off. Not because I want him to have buckets of money but because i find lack of ambition unattractive.
I understand if he gets laid off and is trying to get a new job. The economy is bad. But i just like to see drive
It depends on why you're unemployed and what you're doing to change it. At my age, I don't judge it too harshly because it's hard to find work out of college. I will however, not date someone without a degree or who isn't seeking a degree.
It's only a turn off if he's doing nothing about it.
Yess it is. Exceptions apply maybe he is almost dying or very ill in a hospital. Other than that , no excuse.
It's only a turn off for me when he's not doing anything to fix it.
How do you afford internet when you're unemployed? Shit's expensive!
employment shows that the guy is serious, stable (HORSE STABIE XD jk o.o) and responsable. but not all guys are the same
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