My boyfriend is too strong and not gentle?

He is a great guy and nice to me but he is twice my weight and he's a foot taller than me. I tell hI'm to be more gentle and he tries but i can tell it's weird for him. Any suggestions?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • when we are in the moment we lose control, seems like your boyfriend is just too tall for you, why couldn't you of found a guy around a reasonable height and is naturally gentle?

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    • The heart wants what the heart wants

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    • thats really mean to say :( dont text me anymore. let someone else help you

    • U wernt helpful at all, u were telling me to leave an ideal guy. Christ Ur beta

What Guys Said 3

  • Tell him you prefer to be handled and played like a fine Stradivarius and not a bluegrass fiddle. He'll learn to appreciate the beautiful resonance you return to him whenever he handles you correctly.

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  • I think you'll just have to keep reminding him in all honesty.

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  • Just keep telling him. It's probably difficult for him to adjust.

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What Girls Said 1

  • don't sleep with him if he can't do it without hurting you.

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    • oh no that really isn't the problem he's always mindful then, but its times like he will just grab me and hug me or pull be onto his lap and i dont mind this its just the force to which he does it is too hard

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