I have been getting on really well with a girl whose my flat mate, however it is now the summer and we aren't living in the same house next year, the thing is, she's the type who really speaks her mind and stands up for herself. Hard to describe but I'll do my best, so she didn't make many guy friends or female friends for that matter, except me and her really got on, the sink was blocked at one point, she'd text me, she needed to go shopping with someone, she'd text me, she needed boxes to pack her stuff, she'd ask me to go with her to help her bring them back, you get the idea.
Thing is I really think I'm beginning to like her as more than a friend and I don't know if she's interested in that or if it's just because I'm her only really good friend, from this you might assume she's not very likeable, it's the opposite in a sense, she's just really open, a guy flirted with her while clubbing a few times and she either doesn't say a word to them, or eventually just pushes them away or tells them to get lost, she hasn't really interacted with many guys apart from me. We would often see each other and just take the mick, we'd both laugh lots.
I'm so bad at reading signs especially when it involves her, she's messaged me first most of the time, including to days ago to say she's already bored with being home, said she was going to miss me on the break, sadly she lives in Ireland and I in the UK so visiting isn't too simple. It'll be a few months and I've had a long relationship (2 years) prior to this but I find myself thinking of her a lot. Sometimes I think it's as friends and I'm unsure but as far as I'm concerned, if I'm still thinking about her when I see her again, it must be, so if it seems like she's interested I'll go for it.
What do you think?
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If you are unsure whether you like her as friends or more at this point (maybe you just miss being around her, as a friend, since you were so used to be before) I wouldn't make a move just yet. Although it sounds like you have a good intentions, you should just wait until you determine if you truly do have romantic feelings for her and then make a move. It sounds to me (based on what you wrote) that you two just have a really good roommate relationship-one of my old roommates, who I lived with for 3 years, and I used to be the same way. We weren't ever romantically involved but we had a very close friendship and cared about each other deeply.0