My bf and i have only been dating 10 months and we live together. We have talked about marriage and kids for in the future. Last night I asked if he means what he says because sometimes he can be a jerk and sometimes he is sweet and loving. His brother and dad are the same way so not sure if it just runs in the family. Last week he was being all loving say in i was beautiful and say I love you more then he normally does. Then this week he hadn't been like that. He said it's because he is tired and crabby. I asked why when he is drunk he says different things from when he's sober. For example he sometimes acts diff in front of his friends and if they ask when we r gonna have kids or get married he doesn't say anything. I asked why he's like that and he said it's because they don't need to know. Then when I told him that last night he said he didn't say that. And I said well u were drunk when u did and he's like yeah I was drunk. Does he not mean it or what? He said us getting married will happen within 5 years. I don't know what to believe. Then I asked when he realized he wanted to be with me and when he was drunk one time he said 2 months ago which we were dating for 8 months then. And last night he said after we were dating for 2 months. I asked why he says different things from when he's sober and drunk. He said I prob meant 2 months after we were dating when he said the 8 months. Then I asked how he knew and he just said he felt it in his heart. Then I told him he was my everything n he said I was his too. I'm just worried he's gonna leave me because I love him and haven't been this happy for awjile. He always tells me he isn't gonna leave me and he wants to be together forever..should I believe him?
- yes i Should believe himVote A
- No I shouldn't believe himVote B