So, I've been talking to this girl for about a month and a half now. We get along well and I'm on the verge of liking her a lot (we've made out, held hands, etc).
However, it seems like her communication has waned since we first started talking. For example, for the first couple weeks she'd respond immediately, initiate texts, immediately call back etc.
Now, her responses to my texts are delayed (more than what they used to be) and it takes longer for her to call back. I know she's really busy with work, but not any busier than she was when we first started talking. And at this point, I've basically clearly expressed that I'm pretty into her (told her she's beautiful, ask her out frequently, etc.).
Do you think her decrease in communication because she's losing interest or because she's more comfortable so she doesn't respond as fast? Or do you think it's something else or that I'm over thinking it?
Also, do you think I should slow down on the communication with her a this point to see how she reacts? Thanks in advance.
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I certainly feel that she is losing interest in you. It could be due to several reasons. If you've been doing the same stuff which you did when you met her, she might have found them interesting back them, but may be bored now. And since you both aren't in a relationship yet, she maybe fancying some other guy right now.
Anyway, these are just assumptions. The best thing to do now, would be to just ask her in person (NEVER phone or texts) about what actually is happening with her. This will end all speculation, and you'll know if you need to stick with her, or move on.1
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