Why doesn't he text me between dates?

[Anonymous]

I know we've only been on 2, but we have the next one planned... Only problem is he doesn't text or call. It's kind of a turn off since I don't know him that well. Is he playing me or?

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I think it's a guy thing lot guys don't like texting, doesn't mean he loss interest in you
but my point i think he should contact you and let you know he is alright least let
you know he cares about you yes that i do agree

[apropos]

See this:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1038446-girls-have-you-not-yet-realized-that-many-guys-hate-texting

[Asker]

It not that he doesn't reply "untimely" it's that he doesn't text for like 5 days in between and honestly I kinda miss him and just want to know he's okay. I don't like texting much either.

[Prilee1992]

He just wants to be mysterious, being a part of the game.
As known, giving out too much info of himself would just lessen your attraction towards him.
Another case is he tries to get to know you better before you know him more.

[Asker]

Why would he try to get to know me more before I get to know him? That seems weird.

[Prilee1992]

It's not weird.
Women like someone who are interested in them and that's why he would try to know you by asking u more questions as compared to him revealing his info. more than yours.
Therefore, he might let you do 80-90% of the talking, and just sitting there flirt w you be cool but playful at the same time gauging your attraction on him, by being mysterious and cool as well- which leads to your increase of anticipation on him every time you see him.

[Asker]

I don't know.. I'm kinda quiet so normally he talks the most when I'm with him. So it doesn't seem to be that. He's definitely much more extraverted than I am.

[Prilee1992]

Then I think in this case, he is not used to calling/texting, or it doesn't really matter to him cause he has lots of things to talk to you once he met u. I had a male friend who talked almost 80-90% between us as well, and i felt like ''listening to a girl'' haha it means he's extraverted.
I thought most of the girls like to talk and wanting guy to listen to them properly? Don't you feel turn-off if your crush talks too much? I'm just curious

[Asker]

I'm not sure since I never talked to him before we started dates. Haha.
I love that he talks all the time! I'm really quiet sometimes. I'm not shy, I just have nothing to say on a topic and small talk is not my specialty. He listens to me when I do actually talk. Haha But I don't like that we don't text because since I don't talk as much as him... I don't think we know eachother very well sometimes. It's like everything is moving too fast because we are strangers...

[Prof_Don]

in my opinion he is intentionally nor texting u, so you don't get "over exposed" of him and lose interest by "being too available".

All us guys have been in consistent contact with a girl we were interested in, and she eventually lost interest.

Us guys can only play by the rules you females set for us through our personal experiences.

[Asker]

Do you guys really do that? :o Wow. I just... I have no experience with guys if you can't tell now. Haha. Thanks! And I'm glad it's not that he's lost interest in me.

[Prof_Don]

If he set a date...he definitely hasn't lost interest.

Glad i could help! 8-)

[Apope16]

Not only do guys do that. But im a guy and im doing it RIGHT NOW. The 2nd date is this weekend.