The other day I went out with this guy, it was a lovely date and he seemed really nice but there was no spark. He asked to see me again and I agreed because I'd like to get to know him better ( who knows, maybe there might be something there. ) and to me the second date is just another opportunity to do this.
However I'm worried that by accepting I might be giving him the wrong impression. Is it possible that he simply wants to get to know me better also? Or do boys only ask for a second date if they're after a relationship and/or sex?
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The rule I have when I started dating after my divorce is I never ask for a second date while on the first date. This could pressure the woman to say yes when she really does not want to. and Frankly I had a disastrous first date and because we already had another date set, I felt I had to go on it...it was a bad situation all around and led to being the only woman I ever broke up with.
I don't know any guys that would ask for a second date unless they really wanted to continue to get to know the woman. There doesn't have to be sparks flying everywhere the first time. but you should follow your gut. The only time I didn't it was a huge disaster...0