Would you ask someone to be your girlfriend if she wasn't the most attractive girl you've ever dated? Or even if she's not all that physically attractive at all (like she's bigger than most girls you've been with)?
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Attraction isn't a choice. If you're talking about someone's superficial appearance then no... if I'm not naturally attracted to how a girl looks then I'm not likely going to invest the time in dating with the hopes that she wins me over.
But if I'm friends with a girl I'm not automatically superficially attracted to physically it's completely possible for me to get to know her personality... and with time grow an attraction for her.
Basically this is what most guys do with women... how else would so many of us fat guys hook up with hotties... cause we force these girls to experience our personalities... and with time grown attracted to us for more than our superficial appearances.
So if you're a girl who feels unattractive physically then you might want to do two things... develop your inside-self so deeply and fully that your outside-self matches. Even really "fat" girls can be hot when they love their own bodies, when they dress for their size, and they express attractive/seductive personalities.
Love yourself and it'll show in how you express yourself. :P