I spoke to my bf about too much sexting that we have been doing lately and it's mostly me sending the pics because of me taking control and all... But anyways I had a serious talk with him about it and that we should relax on it because his sex drive is going overboard so we can do it sometimes instead if everytime. Surprisingly he understood about what I was coming from with this and eased back on us sexting a lot. But lately after we had that talk he's been a bit different but I'm not sure if he's trying to get used to not sexting or if he's changing in a bad way. He really does care for me a lot and loves me but I don't know I want things to be normal again in having normal conversations and enjoying ourselves in our conversations and we can get flirty here and there sometimes but I don't want him to change in a wrong way. Please help.
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I think you should tell him what actually what you just said, "I want things to be normal again in having normal conversations and enjoying ourselves in our conversations and we can get flirty here and there sometimes but I don't want him to change in a wrong way." He loves you and cares about you , so you should be able to confide in him and talk to him about it. The best thing in any realtionship to communicate with one another on how you feel. He could be getting used to slowing things down or maybe it something else on his mind, like he's just tired or over worked or stressed. Talk to him about it and hear how he feels too and im sure you two will figure things out. Hope this helps girl. :)1