So, like I said, I go out with different guys a lot. Like on Thursday night, I went out with a guy to a restaurant and then to a bar and we had a nice time and then he kissed me goodnight. And Friday night, I went to a restaurant with a different guy and we also kissed goodnight. They both want to see me again and have asked to go out another night. My problem is that I don't feel anything at all for these guys and it always seems to be that way whenever I go out on dates.
There's only one guy who I actually had strong feelings for and we were only dating for like a month-maybe two, and I really did like him. He was perfect and I could not think of anyone better, but then he decided he didn't like me anymore and stopped talking to me. Douche move.
So now I don't know what to do, I feel like I'll never like another guy as much because I keep comparing these new guys to him.
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Are you actually giving these guys a chance? Because they're not going to be like this other guy - they can only be themselves.
You wouldn't have gone out with them unless you felt something or saw something in them that you wanted to explore. I also don't think you would've let them kiss you if you didn't want them to.
Don't look for signs of your ex in these new guys. Look for the great parts of these new guys. You're probably missing out on something great because you're not willing to move on.0