Try to put long story short. I'm 24 and have never had an actual boyfriend. I'm seriously starting to think that there is something wrong with me. Why doesn't anyone see me as a potential longterm girlfriend?
I have lots of friends, I'm kind, smart, fun to be around. I'm cute, I have a nice style, college education, successful career... I'm not a drama queen, mean girl or shallow.
My male friends say that any guy would be lucky to have me. That I'm 'wife-material'. Obviously they are not attracted to me, though. The other guys that I meet only want to have sex with me. They are not interested in getting to know me. We can go on a few dates but that's it, they lose interest.
And I'm not needy, desperate or crazy. I like being single. It's just that I'm wondering why I have NEVER had a relationship... Anyone any thoughts? :)
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Perhaps you might look at dating guys a little bit older who can appreciate you (guys who are over 30 and have been out in the world working for some time instead of these college types). Could be guys at your age are only looking for an easy lay or are intimidated by you and your success.
You sound like an amazing girl!! I only wonder if maybe when you go out on dates do you talk about serious intellectual topics that turn these people off and maybe you need more flirting skills?
by the way there is nothing wrong with you, you are just that gem waiting to be discovered :)0
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