So i keep hearing about these faithfull honest hardworking men. I work n have children so with not much time for hide n seek on my hands these guys are almost non exsistant. Please if u kno tell me where they r hiding ;)
Where are all the good men at?
What Guys Said 45
The good men tend to hang around the good women. People of similar education, social status and like-minded ideologies tend to group among themselves.
You are probably not finding these "good men" because you are in the wrong circle.
I would look at yourself in the mirror and ask what circle you belong to.
With only your question to go by, these are the traits that are evident:
1. Working single mother
2. Poor English (you type like a teenage texts)
I'm going out on a limb, but I would guess you have not gone to college or university.
While faithful, honest men can be found everywhere, hard working and smart working men will be better educated. Both men and women who have gone to university or college will tend to seek a partner of similar educational background.
There are exceptions to this of course. For example, there is a trend for very successful / rich men to prefer less educated women because they want a woman who can take care of the family. Men like this don't want well-educated career women, because two busy people don't make for a good relationship.
Note of caution though. When you are a single mother, many guys will not look upon you as relationship material. Guys may be willing to sleep with you and play along, but in their mind, they will never stay around because of your kid. While being a single mother is tough, I would suggest you avoid clinging onto a guy too quickly and giving him sex on the first few dates. You may need a better screening process to weed out unfaithful guys. Giving sex too quickly will keep him around in the short term, but not the long term.3
I like to think I'm one of the good guys. I'm young but I work hard in school, I've got a job in a research lab, and can be hopelessly romantic. I love kids and want some of my own if I ever meet someone I would like to have them with.
As for where I am, well its in my apartment, in class, or in the lab. I've gotten tired of chasing college girls who don't seem to care about the future. It doesn't take much to find me, if you see me in a grocery store, say hi. I, and I assume most guys, are always open to talking to just about anyone, but I'm tired of starting conversations that are boring. If I've got something to say about something you did, I'll say it. So give me something to talk about. Or just come talk to me :)3
They're everywhere honestly. But having a kid is gonna cause you complications. At your age it should be judged less harshly. But having one in general you should expect to have to put in extra work to show you're not a reckless single parent. Some stories I've gotten from single mothers are just crazy. I personally don't prefer to date them.1
Most of them are already in relationships with all the good women.
Seriously though, they're all over the place. This question is silly.4
In the friend zone.
Good men generally do not have what it takes to make a girl want to rip their clothes off.6
They are ALL with good women :p3
Umm, I won't say that there are all bad guys out there but sometimes guys change with the choices of their partner or because of their companions or if they experience any sudden change in their lives. Now about your question, actually they are lot of nice guys out there, only problem is that a nice guy won't feel like reaching every single girl out there and take chance instead he would probably link with a girl who has intellectual mind. So, kind of hard to find as they are not the ones on which every girl is hitting on. Good luck though :)0
Hiding behind shy personalities maybe. :P4
They're on the internet. Namely, Gag.3
They're probably hiding from the late 20 year old women with kids when they can try their hand at a slightly younger version without kids.3
I just couldn't help it.3
There are many of those around and single. It's just that they are usually not the type of guys who would make any panties wet.2
Living in the friendzone5
At home worrying where to find a decent woman. Please answer mine: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1048449-if-a-shy-guy-mailed-you-a-card-like-this-how-would-you-react0
I'm handcuffed in the basement right now dammit :(2
I'm here one of the last of a dying breed know as the faithful man. The only problem is, in today society girls aren't interested in nice men but, excuse my words, assholes instead. Also most aren't looking for love but lust girls and boys. I know I might be 18 and people don't think I can even begin to understand adult life and love but its because of the things that happened to me growing up that made me age quicker mentally. I can't tell you where the nice, caring and loving men are because I do not know but if you keep looking hopefully it will come to you. P.S if you have a boy then that is how you can help someone else in the future find a respectful man. My apologies if I have offended anyone please forgive me.0
They must be hiding with all the good women somewhere on some exotic island2
Im right here1
Even good men are searching for good girls..1
in their room watching tv1
Wiping their tears in a basement after being consistently dumped by girls for being "good" guys.1
This sums it up... 31.media.tumblr.com/.../...33x9111rpldpzo1_500.gif1
I am keeping myself occupied and keeping busy. Sorry I'm very independent! :D0
everywhere, you just have to be patient1
I heard they went extinct2
Maybe in other countries? hehe1
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What Girls Said 8
there are a looooot of guys like that.
just some girls don't see it
don't get to
its a thing really, every body has these small signals they throw out
and they attract different types of men
i was talking to my counselor, some women have traits (notice how i didn't say characteristics, cause most of these are things they are born with or into)
that attract abusive males
not every girl is capable of matching wave lengths with a good guy (any one get the reference? hmmm?)4
They are here and can you match yourself up to them, emotionally and intellectually?0
Probably not in bars and clubs.1
Working, spending time with their children, hanging out with friends, bettering themselves, volunteering, helping out at community events, etc.
A man isn't going to fall on your doorstep unless you get really lucky with the FedEx guy.3
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