I am such an insecure person and have trust issues. My bf and i got into an argument last night because I grt sick of the way he treats me sometimes. He gets mad because I don't believe some things he says or I will fight with him and won't trust him. He told me he is not like the guys in my past and it's not his fault I'm like this. But it kinda is because of the way he makes me feel sometimes. Sometimes he acts all loving and other times he asks like a jerk. And I'm scared he's gonna cheat on me. Because when he drinks he can be a flirt and checks out girls. He has mentioned that maybe we go to counseling. Whenever I try talking to him to make our relationship better he always just tells me I need to grow up. But he makes it seem like it's all my fault and if i grew up everything would be fine. But what he doesn't understand is that he needs to do things for me grow up by showing he loves me and me knowing he wants to be with me.
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Too insecure to break up with him?
He's no prize package.
He's already broken up with you if he checks out other women.
You. Need. To. Grow. Up? Do you see anything wrong with this picture?
If he tells you that he's not like the guys in your past, you can believe that he told you that he's not like the guys in the past. Does he act like the guys in your past?
You're right not to trust him.1