I love my boyfriend with all my heart and we have been in a very healthy, happy, and committed relationship for 16 months. He is so respectful to me and is such a gentleman. we are both 18. The only problem is he smokes weed, a lot. I knew when we first started dating he smoked and i smoked too but not as much. Recently i got caught with weed and am now on probation for 3 months. I dont have a problem with not smoking weed cause im not hooked on it and i dont want to get into anymore trouble with the law. i want to go to college and have a family and not end up in prison. my boyfriend is still choosing to smoke weed and he does it a lot with his friends, he also likes to party too. i love him so much and he loves me too but im afraid that if i stay with him then it will ruin my chances of going to college and having a family and im afraid he might end up in jail someday cause of his pot smoking hobby. he does want a family too and he has a job and wants to go to college so its not like he doesn't have goals but I don't know im scared. should follow my head (break up with him) or my heart (stay with him)? what we have is so special and we really connect, im afraid i will never find someone as sweet and respectful as he is. him smoking is his only flaw to me.
- dump himVote A
- stay with himVote B
- other (explain in comments)Vote C
Most Helpful Girl
It shouldn't matter to you. He does what he wants, leave it up to him. Idiot, YOU got caught with weed on your own expense that was NOT your bf's fault. Yea he may have influenced you but do you really have no brain? Think for your fucking self and make your own decisions.
My last bf smoked from time to time. I didn't and he respected that. He did what he wanted and that was fine with me. I knew what was right and wrong for me. He never pressured me into it and your bf isn't pressuring you either so you're just a fagit.0
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