I'm believe once a cheater always a cheater. I have a brother in law who is a misogynist cheater. He always preferred and took his dad's side when it came between his mom and dad. His mom used to lie and manipulate his dad so I guess these are some of the reasons why he is the way he is. Anyways he also had his first ex who cheated on him. I have never thought he's a good person for my sister. Yet my mom had told me that my sister found out her husband was talking again to his first ex. When that happened I got defensive because and told my mom that woman needed to stop getting in people's marriages. Than I caught myself and realized again that my brother in law is a cheater anyways. So for a second I was just blaming the women instead of blaming both of them. Of course I got this way because I don't want my nieces to go through any of that hurt. Still though it's their dad who is not caring about them. Why would I react this way yet when I know once a cheater always a cheater.
Why would I have reacted this way?
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I would say you were thinking like anyone of us would, I wouldn't want any of my family member to go through hurt either. It's human nature to feel such way and you're a nice person anyway. You care and love your family so much that you started blaming every other person. I know I'm not mature to talk about such but I think it's just a simple reaction that came out of you when you thought about the whole thing.
your love for the family made you think such things thats all.0
I can understand you anger, but it's really none of your business. Your sister/brother-in-law are adults and can make their own choices.0
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