Ok to sum it up:
-Met a girl on a dating site (okcupid)
-We got into an argument over something dumb, she said she didn't wanna date me anymore and said she's re-opening her okcupid account
-We still keep in contact, as friends. Later I brought up the argument and proved her wrong and told her i still wanted to be with her, she said she'll think about it
-She keeps in contact with me alot, texting me every morning and all day. I suggested dating to her and giving me a second shot and she felt I was pressuring her
-Last weekend she was "busy" and barely texted me
-Also previously I asked her why she has to think about it, i asked if there's another guy involved (as in she met someone else online) and she said no
-Today we talk as normal a bit, although I had noticed she had disabled her okcupid account (me and her were "Friends" for a week, she had her account open for a week).
Her disabling her account is something she said she would do if me and her went back to "talking", BUT she hasn't said anything to me yet about "talking" (aka dating without the title)
So what do I do?
- ask her25% (1)0% (0)20% (1)Vote
- she wants to date you0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
- other (post what)75% (3)100% (1)80% (4)Vote
so what do i do/ how do i phrase it?
Most Helpful Girl
she might just have a negative idea of online dating in general. I don't know what you guy were arguing over but was it necessary to try to prove to her that she was wrong and she should date you despite the disagreement because it's obvious the disagreement is based on her flawed perceptions and not yours? I would not date a guy who tried to talk to me in that way.0