So, I've completley given up on relationships, too complicated, can barely focus on my own life, (CLICHE BUT, No girl could ever like me cause i dont look the best, awkward in crowds, not exactley smart,(although i somehow managed to graduate early) im not very funny, Im calm in big situations though because i dont take them seriously.) but if a girl SOMEHOW, MAGICALLY, FOR SOME UNKNOWN REASON said she liked me (she confessed) Oh, and no this did not happen nor do i expect it to. What im wondering is would it be rude to ask if A: Are you that desperate? B: Is this some prank where you will humiliate me in front of your friends? C: Did you lose a bet, or were you dared to do this? D: Are you just trying to get over someone else? (If she said no to all of those i would still reject her because she could still do so much better) So are any of those rude at all? PS I WOULD SERIOUSLY ASK THESE QUESTIONS IF I WAS EVER CONFESSED TO BECAUSE SERIOUSLY THATLL NEVER HAPPEN.
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For god sakes, don't say any of that if a girl confesses that she likes you. Something like, "Are you sure?" or "What makes you like me?" would be a MUCH better option. That way she will either be ridiculously forward (usually an obvious "prank" move) or she will genuinely tell you what she likes about you. Or whatever.
And do you know what? If a girl confesses that she likes you and you reject her not because you don't like her, but because you think she could do better? That's a dick move. Reject her only if you don't like her. Because you have no idea how much courage it could have taken her to say something to you. Don't be an asshole to her. :-/0
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