A guy I am into told me he's not looking for a relationship and know that he right now he couldn't give me all his free time, but when/if that time comes, he will see me, but for right now he wants to keep intouch and hang out and go out. (he's 31, I'm 23)
Do guys just say this when they’re not into a woman, and don’t want to hurt her feelings? Or do guys actually pass up women they’re attracted to because they’re not looking and/or not ready?
To me, if you meet someone you’re attracted to, and you are available, you will pursue a relationship. Right or wrong?
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"To me, if you meet someone you’re attracted to, and you are available, you will pursue a relationship." - Partially wrong.
For example, I don't want a relationship right now. I've had a few girls show interest in me and they're great and attractive except I don't want a relationship with them because I plan to leave the country when I finish my degree.
You're right that some guys may use it as an excuse though. Just don't go having sex with him or expecting a relationship unless you can accept the fact that he may be lying to get into your pants with no attachments.0