I'm not going to upload a bunch of pics of myself and then post the links here like other people. Just based on what you can see of my profile pic, what do you think? For those not aware, if you navigate to my profile page, you should be able to click on the picture to see an enlarged version.
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From my perspective: It sounds like you are highly attracted to females who are the opposite of you - on every level. I hate to state the obvious but life would probably be much easier for you if you could find someone you feel matches your intelligence.
You sound as if you are pretty intelligent but you also sound very stereotypically white - which means these Latina women you're into may not be as equally attracted. You may need to study their culture a little more in order to relate.
Also, by not sharing about yourself / constantly asking questions, you are constantly asking them to give instead of being the giver. This can be exhausting for the other person. It no longer is fun, it becomes more like an interview process.
I know you're trying to gain a bank of facts about the other person, but if you're patient those facts will reveal themselves in time. You just have to keep a sharp ear.1