Why can't two people just be honest with how they feel about each other? Why use strategies and tactics in order to be with someone? Nowadays it seems like you need to play so many games in order to obtain someone, why not just be open and honest about the relationship and how you two feel
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I completely agree with you! I hate games, but this is exactly what I am encountering now that I am back in the dating pool.
You can't seem too eager or you will scare them away, or they lose interest! If you aren't eager enough, they think you aren't interested.
I just don't get it. I've tried several times now to just be honest and open and that has gotten me nowhere. I am just a friend because I am so honest and am willing to talk and have conversations. Yes, I am a girl who gets friend-zoned because I am laid back and honest.
It really sucks when you get to know a guy and like him a lot and he seems to like you, but then he's 'just not feeling it' because you are so easy to get along with. But then he goes and gets with someone who is difficult because she is exciting and challenging. I'm not saying that only guys do this, as I know it goes both ways. I just find it frustrating being someone who is honest and open about what I want, only to not find the love I want.
It really sucks, and I totally hear where you are coming from! GRR! :P2