My best friend's mom wants to fix me up with a friend of hers' son. I have never met him and she really wants me to. I made the mistake of telling her that I'd be ok meeting someone before knowing she had someone in mind. Now she won't stop trying to get us together.
I recently lost my brother and am in absolutely no place for a relationship or to meet someone right now. I told her this, she told me we'd "wait a couple weeks" like I will magically be healed or something. I'd like to meet him, just not right now.
This makes me feel like a charity case. Like I can't find someone on my own.
What should I say to her so she gets the point that it's just not the right time?
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Why not meet the guy and tell him how you feel.
That you lost your brother recently and aren't ready for a relationship. Maybe when you least expect it you might find some comfort from him. By that I mean maybe you find a guy that has the connection with you to talk to you about it all and listen. Sometimes in the worst times of our lives we need someone to listen and understand us. Maybe this guy might be the type of guy that can understand and share your pain.
But the only way you will know is if you at least meet him.0