Many guys claim they're looking for a relationship, yet they often want to sleep together before you've really confirmed you're exclusive or had the talk. How can you be sure they want a relationship and they're not just either trying to "get some" or using sex as a way to decide if they want to be in a relationship?
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Some guys bond through sex, and that could change their mind about being in a relationship. Generally however, they have already made their decision. The promise of a relationship is one of the ways a guy can get sex. That is generally what you are going to run into if you have sex with guys that you aren't in a relationship with yet. These guys may continue to remain with the girl as long as she puts out, over trying to find an easier source for sex, but they tend not to put much work in the relationship.0