So.. I meet girls online, talk to them for a week and plan in advance to meet in person. Everything's going well until the hour before the planned meet up. When I call them to find out what's up, they respond with crap like:
- "it's not you, it's me"
- "i can't be bothered, I gave up on dating all together"
- just never reply again.
It's so rude to back out in the last minute and act all excited until then.
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I'm sorry, that really sucks but it happens on both ends you know? Okay, so I'm guessing you've done this a couple times correct? It seems like these girls are either insecure and afraid to follow through or they just decide to be b*tches and stand you up. Here's my advice to you from a girls perspective. Put down the on-line dating for a while, it's not working right now, doesn't mean it won't later in the future. Get out and meet people in the real world, I know you may be busy with work etc but here's the things, you are more likely to make a relationship better with someone if you slowly get to know them one on one and face to face, people fall in love with the idea of someone on-line and sometimes in person all the time, but at least with the in person you have an opportunity to meet someone by joining a club, you like to play basketball? Find a team somewhere, get a group together, you go to the gym? Work out and meet some new friends? You like to sing? Join a community choir, or school choir, point is, by getting involved in things that you love to do hobbies etc you have a chance to meet people that might share a common interest in things that you love. And you know what? Be thankful that you're getting those rude girls out of your system now! They certainly aren't worth your time at all! But seriously, if you do things that you love, you'll meet people that love similar things that you do. Be confident and proud of yourself for putting yourself out there, but... perhaps it's time to try a different approach. Best of luck!1