I see this a lot. It usually ends to a lot of feelings getting hurt and things of that nature. I feel like a lot of guys and girls go for the very attractive girl or guy and 90% of the time they get rejected and just get very discouraged. I cannot tell you how many times I have seen this happen. Whats wrong with average looking people? The thing I really can't stand is people who criticize others (mostly attractive people) for being superficial towards them and rejecting them for their looks when they do they EXACT same thing to those who they perceive as not attractive enough for them. I've been on both ends of the spectrum so I know what it feels like from both ends. I used to be seen as the "unattractive" guy that would get rejected more times than not but now I am seen as the "attractive" guy. I guess my question is how do you feel about those who criticize others for being superficial when they are doing the same thing?
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Why are people so quick to criticize others for being superficial when they are doing the same thing to someone else?
In my opinion generally I find most people are hypocrites or blind to their own 'flaws'/'faults'.
Whats wrong with average looking people?
Possibly plenty in regards to physical health, mental health, or emotional health. As well as in my opinion it seems the media has created an unrealistic and high standard of female beauty so what is average may not be good enough for most guys. While for guys it could be that average looking guys are not funny, smart, wealthy, popular, or cool enough rather than his looks.
I guess my question is how do you feel about those who criticize others for being superficial when they are doing the same thing?
I feel amused. I generally see this is mostly guys and have generally experienced it with guys. It's a laugh to me when I call a guy out on his bs publicly humiliating asking him why he approached me with his answer being my looks which is right after he cusses/insults me for rejecting him based on his looks. It's amusing to me as it seems the guys are quite blind to their hypocrisy of approaching me based on looks yet holds a holier than thou attitude while getting hostile/insulting towards me and finding it superficial to be rejected based on looks.0