Hi people :) I need some advices for my second date. We are going on our second date to a movie in next couple days. I wasn't prepared to hold her hand on the first date. So two questions, first one, i wanna ask girls that is it okay for me to hold her hand on second date? (I am sure that she likes me, but she is shy)
Second question, if it is okay, how?
thank you so much guys and i do really want to have a chance to hold her hand on second date, haha :)
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First of all, if you're not sure whether it would be okay or not to hold her hand, you couls ask her. But if you think you'll feel awkward or a bit shy for asking, then you could wait until the movie.
Once you're watching the movie together, if you didn't hold her hand before because you were not sure, then now's the time. How you hold her hand depends on the type of film you're going to watch together. For example: if it's a Romantic film, hold her hand softly and every now and then move your thumb on top of her hand as if caressing her (is that how you spell it?).
Anyways, don't think too much about: is it the right time to hold her hand? Or should I wait until ______? Or what if she rejects it? (She won't, at least, I wouldn't be dating a guy and reject holding hands with him or I don't know, if you're on a date with someone, its because you like that person, right?)
My best advice is: whenever you feel like WANTING to hold her hand, don't think it twice. Do it softly so she can see that you care for her, and so it feels as an act of love and caring, and not as a 'you're coming with me wether you like it or not' thing..
Hope I helped (did my best... x)
oh and good luck!!!:)1