I am dating atm and often I hear girls complaining that they can't find the "nice guy"
Personally I would describe myself as a nice guy (and bot bad looking)
I can actually understand girls and I listen to thier problems and support or help them with it
I always hold doors open for girls.
I can always make them laugh (some jokes are a bit mean but they can see the joke)
Well I geus you know what I mean
But I often experience that girls are not attracted to this behaviour at all, if I act like the nice guy I always end up as thier friend
But however if you act like a asshole (doing nothing of the listed above) I have much better success rates
Are you yust attracted to guys when they treat you like shit?
And I also have a extremely high success rate on simply finding out a struggle of that girl and yust agree on thier struggle and help them a little with it
But then they get extremely attached with is a turnoff for me
Anyhow any explanation from you girls why you prefer being treaten like shit over being treated like a angle
And why you get soo extremely attached when someone helps you with a struggle
Oh yhea for the people that wonder if i really can understand girls my EQ (emotional intelligence) is 146 (almost a emotional genius)
Please do not get the above as bragging, I see no point in bragging on this site :p
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Hey! So, here's the deal- are you being friends-sweet or flirty-sweet? From your description, I guess you're being friend zoned. By sweet guys, we mean, for example... Augustus Waters (just gave him as an example because everybody, if haven't read the book, at least saw the movie). As guys often say, "we're not fortune tellers". We can't just guess you have a crush on us! So, yeah, we like sweet guys, but you have to be "sweet-flirty". Now, regarding to your question-"why we like mean guys". Well, at least I hate them with my entire heart, but I can guess why women usually fall in love for them. They're confident, usually because they're pretty and go "straight to the point". And, mmm, I guess every girl likes bad guys. I, who hate men that treat women like shit, usually have crushes for villains in movies or in books (I know, pretty weird :P). So, yeah, truly hope I could help! Kisses kisses!0
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