Next week I'm planning on asking my crush out at school. It seems rather likely that she likes me back so that should be fine.
Now we're both extremely introverted and the weather is currently very cold and miserable so I thought "going out" on a date in the traditional sense wouldn't be the best idea.
I'm gonna have the house to myself for a while so I was thinking of asking her to come over to my place so it's just the two of us and watch movies and talk and just enjoy each other's company.
Is this a good idea? Also should she sleep over or not?
To me this sounds great but I really don't know if she'd be comfortable with something like that for a first date.
- Good IdeaVote A
- Good Idea (and make it a sleepover)Vote B
- Bad IdeaVote C
Most Helpful Girl
You need to ask her out on a date. Being introverted isn't a good excuse because if you have enough courage to ask her, then why not go somewhere in public? Usually the only girls who agree to house dates that early on are thots so unless you are looking for some quick fun and dont care what she thinks about you, i wouldn't try it.
If sex isn't on your mind then ask her out on a real date. Guys who ask me over on house dates get tossed back in the pond because that shows in my eyes that they aren't serious and are just trying to waste my time.0