I'm an all-around average guy. I'm average looking (generic-looking white dude), have an average job (work for a bank), and I'm pretty average in terms of suaveness/coolness/swagger. When it comes to dating (online or otherwise), I feel like I'm always put into the "maybe" category. I don't think I'm boring (I've written books, I rock climb, I'm in above-average shape) and I think I'm pretty funny.
So what's the secret that I'm missing out on? What do the "yes" guys have that the "maybe" guys don't?
Most Helpful Girl
having confidence and being able to treat a girl in a way that makes her feel special and as if she means something to you is what sets the yes guys apart from the maybe guys0