I met this guy online and he seems really nice and cool and stuff. He is a good listener too and has listened to me and given me advice on my boyfriend who dumped me a little over a month ago. He can chat and listen to me chat for hours at a time online too. Hes in his 30s and I'm in my 20s. I don't have hardly any friends anymore since they all went to different colleges and moved away and stuff so I really don't got anyone to talk to about stuff or just chat with. Anyway he invited me to go with him to see a movie he is planning on going to Sunday. He lives just a few miles away. Ive never hung out with anyone Ive met online before but he seems nice. I just don't know if he might stab me or rape me or something in person. I'm just a little phobic about stuff like that and don't know if he just acts nice online or what and I'm a little unsure about if I should go to see a movie with him or not. We were going to just drive and met up at the movie place and see the movie together and hang out there then leave nothing else. We weren't thinking of dating or anything, he's a bit old for me anyway, were just friends that haven't ever met in person. Any thoughts? Does this guy sound like he's ok or is he maybe just pretending to be nice?
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It's hard to judge a person online. I would see about taking a friend with you or someone you work with to the movie with him. Not all guys are creeps online. He could be a great guy. But it's better to be safe then sorry. Let him know that you would love to hang out with him, and tell him that you've never met anyone off the internet and was wondering if you could bring a friend. Drive with your friend, and meet him there. If he is a good guy then he will totally understand. If he seems hesitant, then I would be very hesitant about meeting him.1