I am a Hard worker who is a virgin, doesn't drink, doesn't party, doesn't smoke or any of that crazy stuff... I am physically fit, I have straight a's etc... as a man I felt proud of what I accomplished so far.
But I realized that a lot of people laughed at me... it makes me sad and causes dull pains in my heart.
I tried everything... u name it I have done it
I try to be confident by being funny and trying to make a comfortable atmosphere to talk. But no lady has taken interest in me.
I tried all types of girls... and I make sure I don't look desperate.
And yes I do have friends that are girls too but they are not into me...
I might have realized that Most of the girls at my school are sort of preppy and they are white ( I live in a white area),... I am brown... no I don't fit into any stereotypes
I am going off to college soon and knowing all of this has caused some kind of depression I am having, on top of that I think I have a mental issue where I look a the mirrior I see myself turn ugly as hell
I don't know what to do anymore?
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Please stop feeling negative and try to adjust your attitude. You are still YOUNG and there is so much more up ahead, but stop and think what you DO have. I have seen people with their legs blown off in war, wearing fake limbs and working out in the gym harder than anyone else. I have friends, males and females, who caught STD's very YOUNG in life, changing their lives forever. The list goes on. Look on the bright side and realize you will get what you want when you meet the right person. You can and you will.1