An "international" dilemma for me?

Okay I just went to France last week and I noticed something...

Guys would come up and flirt with me, even check me out. And I had no problem talking to them either (usually I'm self conscious about talking to guys because I make a fool out of myself)

When I'm in the US it's like guys avoid me like I'm some sort of plague and it's really confusing.

Am I ugly or what? Or is it just me over thinking it? Because over here I feel like a guy repellent.


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  • its just culture shock to you. 2 completely different cultures. people in the states are usually how you described.

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What Guys Said 5

  • You are probably overthinking. Plus you were 'visiting' france, not living there. The situations are not the same.

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  • French guys are more expressive and french girls are more receptive, you'll find that dating changes with each country.

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  • Well clearly you are over thinking this but I will make some phone calls to the US embassy in France and see what I could do for you.

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    • No need. I'm back in the US.

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    • Isn't that lovely 😂

    • I aim to please mam I aim to please

  • Guys in the US seem to suffer from poor flirting skills.
    French guys have no problems in that arena. If they like a girl, they will talk to her.

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  • American men are probably more feminized than French men lol. Though France is worse in other ways.

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